I’d be interested in what animations you have for future reference, since inevitably there will be something else I want to fuss with. Can you set it so clothes stay on? I have found they come off for teasing animations even if the sims are just kissing. I took it back out again after playing around with the attraction system this weekend. You can base attraction on WW's personality archetypes but they are more limited. Only WW has the attraction system right now, though I will say it is mostly geared toward physical attraction at the moment. You can have risky woohoo/birth control through mccc and I think there is a realistic periods mod as well. Also I found the breastfeeding pixels in the vanilla game annoying but didn't love taking off the whole shirt/bra as an alternative. Things you can't turn off, afaik: the reward store traits (I think romantic sims all become cum sluts?), nudity (though you can turn off nudity story progression), 'have sex' goals during dates, language changes (have sex, has a penis vs. Turn off all sex autonomy and the peeping toms and you shouldn't see random sex everywhere.

I tried and I still got 'have sex' as a goal on a date, because it's totally normal to completely undress and make out on the bathroom floor of a cafe with your husband (the WW mod comes with limited animations). It's hard to escape once it's in your game even if you don't download sex animations (and I don't think you can just download masturbation animations if that's all you want). Personally, I find the mod pretty intrusive.

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